Can he handle a diva like you?

Does your man take your success in his stride? Can he handle your popularity among friends and peers alike? Take this quiz to find out if he can handle the prima donna that you are. By Baisakhi Roy

1) You have him open the car door for you every time you go out.
a) he does if he doesn’t have something more important to do
b) does offer a meek protest sometimes
c) opens the door every time
d) he starts ranting about how unfair his life is

2) You have just told him that you don’t like his best friend and he cannot call you anymore on your landline.
a) he doesn’t care, he calls his friend and tells him to call back later. On the same number.
b) he talks to him when you are not around
c) he says he will never speak to him and at once takes him off his Facebook page
d) he looks at you, startled and bursts into tears.

3) You gift him a Harley at his surprise birthday party with 50 guests in attendance and you laugh about how he gave you flowers for yours.
a) he pops a bottle of champagne and straddles the bike proudly
b) he tries to stay unnoticed for the rest of the party
c) he is busy networking with your boss and flirting with his wife
d) he is heard defending the flowers to the guests

4) You are voted “Businesswoman of the year” and have to attend a celebratory party with him
a) he dons his best suit for the occasion
b) he mysteriously develops a headache and does not want to go
c) he proposes marriage and asks if you would consider a pre-nup.
d) he gets drunk and makes a scene

5) You are on holiday and you insist on paying for everything
a) he does not mind you paying once in a while
b) he insists very loudly on paying when there are people around and then asks you to pay
c) he never pays, you earn more than him don’t you?
d) he threatens to break up with you

Mostly a’s: He is a solid man, comfortable in his success. He can take your bad behaviour and dish some in return too. Don’t push him too far or else might just up and leave.

Mostly b’s: He’s embarrassed easily and suffers from self esteem problems. His manhood is threatened by any gesture, big or small. You are better off without him

Mostly c’s: He is in a comfort zone of another kind. He will let you walk all over him and after a while it won’t feel so good. A man who can stand up to you is way better than a doormat. Tread carefully; he might just get comfortable mooching off you for life.

Mostly d’s: Clearly he’s made the wrong choice. You can break this man with a whisper and then who do you go out with?